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Carmel-by-the-Sea Girls Trip: What to Wear & Pack (40th Birthday)

Cool coastal layers, a celebration-worthy dinner look, wine-country touches, and the carry-alls to bring it home — a 40th to remember in Carmel.

Quince Comfort Stretch Trench Coat

Quince Comfort Stretch Trench Coat

Quince
Why we love it

Carmel runs cool and foggy even in summer — a water-resistant trench is the layer you'll live in for beach walks and breezy dinners. This one is stretchy and packs down small.

$129.00
Quince Mongolian Cashmere Crewneck Sweater

Quince Mongolian Cashmere Crewneck Sweater

Quince
Why we love it

The $50 cashmere that punches like luxury. Throw it over everything when the marine layer rolls in; it weighs almost nothing in the bag.

$50.00
AGOLDE 90s Pinch Waist High-Rise Straight Jeans

AGOLDE 90s Pinch Waist High-Rise Straight Jeans

Agolde
Why we love it

A high-rise straight in rigid cotton — the do-everything base for wine tasting, village shopping, and the top-down drive down Highway 1.

$208.00
Quince 100% Washable Silk Slip Dress

Quince 100% Washable Silk Slip Dress

Quince
Why we love it

The birthday-dinner move. Washable silk in a bias slip that dresses up with heels or down with the cashmere over your shoulders.

$90.00
Cariuma OCA Low Off-White Canvas Sneakers

Cariuma OCA Low Off-White Canvas Sneakers

Cariuma
Why we love it

Clean off-white canvas that pairs with everything and handles Carmel's steep little streets. Plants two trees per pair, too.

$89.00
Birdies The Starling Loafer

Birdies The Starling Loafer

Birdies
Why we love it

The 'look pulled-together while walking 12k steps' shoe — a smoking-slipper loafer with Birdies' seven-layer insole hidden inside.

$160.00
Lack of Color Palma Wide Fedora

Lack of Color Palma Wide Fedora

Lackofcolor
Why we love it

Wide-brim palm straw with UPF 50+ — sun cover for Carmel Beach and the kind of Pebble Beach photos that actually make the group chat.

$99.00
Cuyana Mini System Tote

Cuyana Mini System Tote

Cuyana
Why we love it

Italian-leather mini tote with a removable strap — a day bag in the village, a crossbody at dinner. The quiet-luxury MVP of the trip.

$228.00
Béis The Weekender

Béis The Weekender

Beistravel
Why we love it

The bag that started Béis — 49L, a separate shoe compartment, and a trolley sleeve that slides over your carry-on. Perfect for a 3-night trip.

$108.00
Béis The Packing Cubes

Béis The Packing Cubes

Beistravel
Why we love it

Three cubes, a zip pouch, and two shoe bags so a long weekend of outfits actually fits — and you can find them. A girls-trip sanity saver.

$68.00
Supergoop! Unseen Sunscreen SPF 50

Supergoop! Unseen Sunscreen SPF 50

Supergoop
Why we love it

Invisible, weightless SPF that doubles as a makeup primer. Coastal sun sneaks right through the fog — wear it every day.

$19.00